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Sir, i had a sex on 1 march,2010, with a sex worker, after few days Rashes & pimples is happening on my penis and still happening regularly, Test :- i took normal hiv(blood) test after 3 month it was negative, Again i took hiv normal (blood test) test after 9 month it was also negative. i want to confirm that i am hiv free or not ?

-(3/4/2011)

No problem. You are free HIV. The pimples may be due to some other SExually Transmitted Disease.

Hi doctor, I came across your website to ask the queries. Really you are doing great job by giving answers. Please tell me 1. i had exposure 1 year before as unprotected sex with a prostitute ejaculated outside the vagina and i went for check up after two month in a lab and it was negative result. 2. after one year of exposure i underwent a test of VITROS immunodianostic (HIV 1 & 2)in Max hospital and it was 0.38 Non reactive. doctor went for the test because i had candidasis. Please tell me how conclusive the test is it.

-(3/3/2011)

It may be conclusive.

sir i have done intercource with a sex worker in mumbai india during sex my condom was broken and i came to know after discharging now from that day i m very scared even though this was the first time for me doing sex with some one else what should i do now plz guide me

-(2/26/2011)

First do the HIV test that will relieve you from worries. Use condoms, which are not expired also. Go for good quality condom next time if you happen have sex with sex workers or even other than your spouse.

sir i want good treament for hiv im area west godavari dist

-(2/26/2011)

It is there in the list given in the site.

As discussed, I am writing for my brother only. Suppose he had a first exposure before eight years back (Anal sex with cosine brother force fully ) and also having a tattoo in his hand ( do not know it is sterilized or not) dated on 02.01.2003 and a Second exposure before one year back(Needle exposure as he is a paramedical stuff). Exposure date -1.1.10 Now if he wanted check his HIV status doing HIV test as he wants to marry now. History of Exposure & Test details. 1st exposure-2003 Last exposure-1.1.10 Test after 11 months-form ICTC 2.11.10- Non reactive . Test after 11 months-form private lab by micro ELISA Method . 2.11.10- Non reactive . Test after 12 months-form ICTC . 1.1.11- Negative or non reactive . My question is then this test(last test after one year of exposure) will cover both the exposure? Pl inform me that weather the last also confirm that there is no HIV infection till date. also there is no risk of having HIV infection from the last two exposures that he had 8 years back and 1 year back. There is no other exposure last one year also do not have any other exposure or bad life style. Pl confirm my doubt.

-(2/23/2011)

Dear Friend, the fear you have is just psychological. Now, you need not worry about your brother, he can very well get married.

there is quarrel between my wife and with my mother. My mother rebuked her in my absence and forced her not to tell with me anything what she told her. in this situation she become very disappointed and also me. As we are newly marriaged (Love Marriage) but we don't any interest in sex for that distress. Pls. suggest what i have to do.

-(2/23/2011)

Dear Friend, this is a most common problem with newly married couple. This will take some time to adjust. First you talk to both of them separately and sort it out.
There are some facts, you have not given are about your mother, your family members, brothers, sisters like that.

If your mother was a single parent, this problem will come
As yours is a love marriage, your mother could not have digested it and she might have had something in her mind.
If you can give some more fact, we can easliy give some suggestion for that,

Hi, I had sex with whore at GB Road in New Delhi, 5 months ago that was protected sex but when she removed my condom she wiped my penis with rough cloth which she already had. I want to ask that can i get infected by this way if yes then what have to do now and where to be get done tested my self? I have not faced any problem once i had fever but that was viral fever but cured. Now i am fine there are no symptoms on me. kindly answer me as possible as you can. thanks kishor

-(10/29/2010)

As per our opinion, there is a remote chance for the infection. If you want to check the HIV status, you may visit the nearest ICTC. Your details will be kept as secret.

can hiv virus be conclusively detected by a tridot test in the 20th week? i had two tests done, first in the 11th week after exposure and second after 20th week of exposure, both results were negative by the tridot test. the exposure was lip to lip kissing. so can i be sure that i am hiv negative? please rply...

-(10/27/2010)

Its ok. There is a REMOTE chance of infection in the lips kiss, but one person has aby sorosis or gum bleeding, it may get infected.

i got a tetanus injection couple of days back.i think the nurse used the used syringe.is it possible to reuse the disposable syringe?can i get any disease like hiv etc because of reused syringe.

-(10/26/2010)

Normally there is a ban on reuse of injection. If at all used, it should have been boiled. Being an educated person, why did you allow her to use the used syringe.
But you need not wory at this stage.

sir.i must say aids free india doing grear work..i need counselling from you.4 months before i had an unsafe encounter with a lady.just after 4 day from incident i had extreme iching inside my penis.only iching nothing else.my doctor said it is a fungul infection.i had some antibiotitics with snti fungul lotion. now iching is no more. but i havee a fear of some saxually transmitted unfection.this is the status of my tests after three months..vdrl negative..hsv1 hsv2..negative..chlymdyia..negative..hiv 1 hiv 2 elisa antibody ..negative..all these test performed after three months..should i need to retest hiv? should i need to test any more std test?..sir i m going to mary with in few months..but this anxity dnt let me to enjoy my dream days..please help me..thanx in advance

-(10/25/2010)

Dear Friend, there won't be any problem. Nothing to worry. Keep all the history out and start a fresh life and thinking.

any charitable trust is there in india caring aids petient plzzz inform me

-(10/23/2010)

There are many NGOs working in India for the HIV affected people. The list, you can get it from NACO's website.

i had an affair with a guy 5 months back. we didnt have any physical intercourse , but we did kiss each other. we broke up 4 months bach. in the mean time i had a mild attack of german measles inspite of being MMR vaccinated. i grew apprehencive and went in for a tridot test for hiv exactly after 79 days of the salivary exposure. the test results were negative. can the results be accurate? or can i still be having the hiv virus in me? i have already posted my query before bt it hasnt been considered yet. plz do rply soon, as my university exams are approaching and i'm relly tensed about the entire matter. plz help me out!

-(10/22/2010)

There won't be any problem as you had only kissing. If you had any mouth ulcers etc, there may be a chance. But it will not be like blood or semen exchange.
Don't worry, just concentrate on your education

sir please please solve my problem i do masturbation in my home and other places.one day i lost my money purse in a public toilet i wan to take it directly.i fear urine and the waste touched my body penis too.i hve casual contact with my friends relatives we share food clothes,glasses.... but when i masturbate the fear arises.i cant touch any object,cant use some one else toilets twice i checked hiv result is negative.recently we had a night party in my home little drunken we both urinated to the window. next day i strtd fearing,i had intercourse in my teenage with ma brother that time i dont know any thing.right now i m thinking about the past situations including the test results the syringe used to collect my blood accidentally dropped by the nurse in ictc.now i hve some skin diseases in penis,inner side of thighs,fever,throat infection,stomach infection etc.. i cant do masturbation if i do i will check my room bathroom soaps computer mouse etc.sir pls find me a solution skin diseases and others is connected with my current situvation some of my friends are sexually active.any problem sir please make it fast..

-(10/21/2010)

You have fear Psychosis. It is better to consult a qualified Psychatrist. So, it is nothing but fear but some one has to explain to you properly.
Masturbation is also healthy as long as it is under control and you don't feel/have guilty consciousness.

Hi... i am 26yrs Male. in the year 2002 i had some blisters on my penis which disappeard i two - three days. Later after some years i was facing problem while urinating it startd burning for few months and it stopped burning now its normal. i am getting maried next year so if i have sex with my wife so is there any chance of getting infected with HIV. Also FYI when i was 15-16 I had un protected sex with 4 girls. Kindly advice if any cance am i infected with HIV

-(10/19/2010)

Better to check your HIV status now.

Last night i insert my finger inside vagina of prostitute ...then after having protected sex ,I washed my penis with those finger ..what r the chance that will catch HIV ... PLZ replay soon

-(10/19/2010)

Rmotest chance or No

Dear Sir/Madam, I am 26 years old male who is sexually addicted. From my childhood till to date I watch porn movies and go for masturbation. When i was doing diploma I loved a girl for sex but unfortunately i committed myself to marry her and we got married after me coming out of my home. We both lived together for an year, our sexual life was good and we did not have any kid. Finally, our love broke out because of lot of issues and we both got separated & divorced 36 months back. I am a frequent visitor to sex workers, I had unprotected sex with around 8-10 women. Recently I felt in love with the a married women and we both had sex, she is ready to divorce her husband and come to me. She is preparing to do the same. I wanted to live with this girl after marrying her. Even after meeting her I visited sex workers thrice & watched porn movies, I don't want to go but I can't control the same. I lost my education, my work & my life because of sex. I really don't know whether I love this girl, but I wanted to live happily and put an end to all this non-sense. I went down to psychiatrist but not able to follow up the advise. Kindly advice...

-(9/11/2010)

Too much doing of same thing will be negative. First you have to come out of this feeling.
You may follow the given steps to come out of this over sex thinking

1.Develop your willpower. If you truly want to stop thinking about sex, you need to make a commitment to yourself and stick with it! At a minimum, you should make a goal to curb your sexual thoughts so that they don't distract you from your other daily activities, such as work or school.
2.Understand that there is nothing wrong with thinking about sex. It's entirely natural, and everyone does it. Biologically speaking, it is next to impossible to stop thinking about sex completely, as your body instinctively drives to reproduce.
3.Don't forcefully try to block the thoughts from your head. By telling yourself not to think about sex, you are still putting the thoughts of sex in your head.
4.Find a way to occupy yourself. You might try working out, reading a book, taking a walk or taking up meditation. Spend some time with your friends. Watch a movie. Play an instrument. Go out to dinner at a restaurant. While outside activities are probably not going to get thoughts about sex completely off your mind, it will help to facilitate other thoughts outside of sex.

5. Avoid giving in to temptation. Try not to objectify an individual by staring at all of their body parts. Avoid looking at pornographic images and/or reading erotic writing. Remember, temptation is harmful and denying yourself the opportunity can help to keep sex off your mind.

Some more TIPS are
1. Try to slowly stop thinking about sex. Take small steps at a time.
2. If all else fails, think about things that you would never associate with sex. Be creative with your unsexy thoughts!
3. Don't frustrate yourself over sexual thoughts. Remember that everyone else thinks about sex, too. What matters is that you can still go on with your daily life without letting something as silly as sex bother you.
4. Release expectations. Expectation makes you feel like you should do something about your desires. Simply let the desires flow in and out of your mind without expecting yourself to do anything about them. Learn how to enjoy desires rather than expecting yourself to fulfill them.
5. Know that sexual thoughts and feelings are natural for everyone. If you never have sexual thoughts, you probably wouldn't enjoy the real thing at all.
6. Recite words to yourself - scriptures are helpful, or just a promise you made to yourself. When you speak, all other thoughts stop.
7.If you have a firewall guard in your computer try to enable parental control and put the profile to teen so you won't be able to watch porno ,whenever you visit any porno or sexual words content site it will prevent accessing those kind of sites
8. Sex is actually like a path if you get caught its first terminal you will probably end up in next terminal ,so stop thinking about girls specially but as usual doesn't matter but it's depend on your sexual orientation.
9. and stop watching any women in sexual way
10. Use your concentration to Math ,it will greatly help you
11. Look at human body more open minded way rather than sexual way
12. so if you think like that even you saw a naked man or woman you won't probably get horny.

I got results HIV (1 & 2) Negative & Non Reactive after (77 days & 161 days, checked 2 times on these dates) post exposure. Is this results reliable. plz let me know if I am infected

-(9/6/2010)

Its ok and reliable.

Hello sir i am 21 year old boy. i had sex with a sex worker 4-5 days ago in abroad. We used a condom but before discharging i just twice inserted it without condom but not after that and discharged outside and there was no bleeding or something like that from both the sides.everything was ok that time so I am hell stressed so please tell me are there any chances or not.

-(9/6/2010)

Dear Friend, one should not take a chance like that. BUT, there is a very REMOTE chance only to get HIV that too she is also infected with HIV. If you feel that to get rid of this feeling, you may get tested after three months.
BUT you need not worry about this now.

Sir, I had sexual contact with 3 ladies last weel. All are sex workers. I used condom in every case. but with one lady I took bath in bath tub and was not wearing condom at that time. Can I be ed?infected with HIV? Is there a way to test without letting my wife know about it? Will authority be after me in case I am tested positive, or I can still keep my identity secret? what is window period and when shall I go for test, If required?

-(9/6/2010)

There won't be any infection in this case. Feel free from this issue.

sir i had sex for continous one month with my boyfriend two years ago.now i am 22 and next year i am getting married with some one else.i am afraid and very depressed that will my husband come to know about my past in first night.will he raise any ouestion about my loss of virginity?i have been living in agony for last six month due to this.should i tell him the truth or hide it.if i hide he will come to know during first intercourse.what should i so,plz suggest.

-(9/5/2010)

Dear Friend, whatever happened, happened. Its fine.
Unless your husband is a Doctor, he cannot know your virginity.
In the present world girls actively paticipate in sports activities, cycling etc. So, there is every possibiliy that the hymen would have been ruptured.
There is a school of thought, experienced women may moan during the sexual act or they know, how to cooperate etc. BUT today's world the Pornographic movies are plenty and every one can access it. So, if your husband asks something about it, you can always say that you heard through friends etc.

Finally, NEVER EVER say that you had experience through your boy friend to your husband. If at all he comes to know about it through your ex-lover, you can always say that there was a love only and you had separated because of some reasons.

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